Love is Unselfish

1 Corinthians 13:5 Love is… not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love is Unselfish

•It is not self-seeking. It is giving without expecting any self-gain. It does not seek its own (NASB); does not
demand its own way (NLT); isn’t always “me first” (Message); not selfish (NCV).

•We can be obsessed with ourselves apart from thegrace of God; we could live a very selfish life.
Love is Unselfish…it doesn’t hoard

• People curse the man who hoards grain, but blessing crowns him who is willing to sell (Prov.11:26).
Principle of the verse: When God gives us the capacity to help somebody, but we do not do it, we are like the man who hoards grain who is cursed for hoarding. We bring upon us the curse for hoarding.

• What could we possibly hoard? time, kind words, gratitude, encouragement, forgiveness, patience, respect,
submission, unconditional love, the Gospel… Love shares not only material things but intangibles. If you allow
yourself to be obsessed with yourself, then you only have yourself left with you at the end of the day.

• We should set boundaries and say no whenever necessary, but when God gives us the capacity and opportunity to be a blessing to others, we must give unselfishly. If anyone has material possessions and sees
his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him? (1 John 3:17)

Love is Unselfish…it sets us apart

•If our obsession and the greatest share of our mind is ambition for power, position and possession, then we
have a problem. Our selfishness will get in the way of our relationship with God and with others.

•But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money,
boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy (1 Tim. 3:1-2)… Take this as a
checklist of our (un)selfishness.

•When we are made holy, it means we are set apart for the purpose of God. The opposite is to be set apart for
our own purpose which is being selfish.

Love is Unselfish…it makes Jesus happy

•When God sees His children sharing the things they with another, it warms the heart of God and makes
Jesus happy. It is a win-win-win experience: we make Jesus happy foremost of all, we make another person happy, and it certainly makes us happy. Freely received, freely given.

•When we think of others first more than ourselves, it becomes a privilege more than an obligation. • God does
not need us to do His work; He can fulfill His plan for another person without our help, but He gives us the
opportunity and the privilege to be part of His plan and purpose.

Love is Unselfish…it is secure in the Lord

• Take a look at the life of Abraham. Abraham is an example of a man with unselfish love because he is
secure in the Lord. Abraham freely gave Lot the first pick of the land which they were dividing (Gen.13:8-11).
Abraham could do it because he was secure in his relationship with Lord. He believed God for who He was
and for what He said He will do.

• Just like Abraham, as children of God who have received Jesus as our personal Lord and Savior, our
security in our relationship with the Lord will allow us to love unselfishly. If we are secure in the Lord, how
much more security can we possibly want? Our security in the Lord allows us to love unselfishly.
Our time is too short for us to be selfish. Love other people today and every day unselfishly.


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